Wendy Strgar

Everyone Wants To Be Loved; Do It Well.

“For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.” Rainer Maria Rilke

Love is the testament of our ability to do the greatest and most meaningful work of our lives. Everything else pales beside our ability to create and nurture a love that endures. The capacity for love is innate in us, a perfect seed of goodness that is born in the moment we join the life force. Yet we are not born with the skills that love demands. This is life’s real purpose for each of us, to be sculpted by love’s hand into the best version of ourselves. Learning to love, ourselves and those we make promises to is the process of true maturation and the door to a meaningful and inspired life.

The capacity to accomplish this work is developmental, which means with practice and dedication anyone can become more skilled at loving. This is the task that is most worthy of your life. Learning to love well is the heart of the matter, and really nothing else matters as much.

Thank you for joining on me on the journey.

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“I always enjoy Wendy’s writing and appreciate how she uses examples in her own life to demonstrate a point. This article was one of the best I’ve ever read and I agree whole-heartedly with her words. As a practioner of the healing arts, I have seen many different kinds of wounds. In my personal life, I have witnessed the truth of the statements in this article. My thanks to Wendy for so lovingly and accurately being able to communicate about the important subjects she addresses in her newsletter. I am touched and blessed by her wisdom, courage, and style. Please let her know that her work is spreading and healing and helping. Please understand how important this kind of education is for those fortunate enough to find it.”
W.R. Colorado

“I just want to thank you for the wonderful work you do… I share your writing with all my clients. I work as a health counselor. Many of my clients come to me because of weight or energy, but so many also have issues around sexuality and intimacy, as do so many Americans! I love how your writing addresses all of the aspects of our physical lives. Keep up the great work!”
R.K. Missouri

“Just want to say how much I enjoy your writing. I am a writer who researches and writes three newsletters for a security company –perhaps because of that I’m an avid reader of other newsletters. It’s not just your fascinating subject matter that I appreciate, but the thoughtful, open approach and clear writing. Keep up the good work!”
A.B. Minnesota

“I have been reading your writing for more than a year by now and I would like to thank you from deep in my heart for the wonderful work you are doing. When I talk about sexuality with my husband, with some of our friends, or even strangers, I always tell them just to imagine the enormous energy lying idle because of so many couples and singles with a sex life that got stuck and maybe never even really started. Thank you for bringing back some of this energy to the world!”
G.C. Zurich, Switzerland

“Wendy offers a medicine that’s sorely needed in this time of conflict, difficulty and stress, and she prescribes it honestly, delicately and with the utmost respect. Hers is a great and important medicine for our time. Her talks are informative, inspiring, fun and quite revelatory. Since we’re all products of a culture that’s treated sexuality as a forbidden topic, her approach to speaking openly, honestly and unabashedly about the emotional, psychological and physical benefits of cultivating greater sexual intimacy with your partner is pure joy. What a wise teaching, a women confront the challenges of this time, to become empowered about our sexuality.”
Nina Simons, Founder of Bioneers

Everyone Wants To Be Loved; Do It Well.

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